Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! . This only works with a synastry chart, and (as always) is simply my own opinion! He has pholus conjunct dejanira, all on my BML exact. Sydney, you are amazing. I think the Nessus/Deja relationship in synastry is a re-play of childhood abuse. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. Great questions. How do we honor Lilith in our lives? Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. It is sad! You made my day, Juice and Welcome! Eros & Psyche in. When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. There is so few information on these aspects so I really appreciate reading more about it here and in the forum. Yes, I was thinking about this. I am so intrigued!!! I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. The charts tell all. It may seem challenging but we share many conjunctions and trines/sextiles. 3 degrees is wide but this is one of the hardest aspects in the whole chart, so please be vigilant, as I know you will be! Lots of good aspects so thats why the Nessus Dejanira confuses me. I had a very intense, psychically damaging and life changing relationship with a man whose Eros was directly conjunct my Lilith, and also more loosely conjunct my Neptune & Descendant. I was wondering how abuse would play itself out if the Nessus-Deja synastry conjunction is in Cancer. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. we also have Eros (his) conjunct my Lilith and Pluto (mine) conjunct his Venus. Her theme is power-alluring and irresistible. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. Eros in Synastry seems appropriate to discuss for this time of year. Pick your top two questions and I will try to help, my Friend! Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. It would simply be different. Thats not the truth. Eros and Sun in Synastry! (Conjunction, Opposition, Trine, Sextile You are not an astrology god that holds the key to the entire truth. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. It is a pleasure to be here. About Nessus/BML, I would watch it. I dont believe in past lives, Lo. Thank you so much, Love. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. Maybe, maybe not. I would say that there must be wonderful soul connections that keep down the abuse that would come up without these. Powerful, you say? Does this mean anything? Considering the sexual aspect of it all, though, I'm betting the pay off was satisfying at least, haha. That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. Yes, that is a good way to put it. This is not dark sexual, per se. To gather more about the flavor of the relationship, look to the actual aspect (is it favorable or difficult?) Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. Thats like saying everyone with their own natal mars square pluto aspect makes them destined to be molested. Do you have their synastry you could post on my Forum? I guess ill post mine and then our synastry chart. Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. The Basic House Rulers23 Simple Steps for Beginners. xx. My main point is reflection. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! My mother has her Nessus conjunct my sun and she has it conjunct her own north node, and my Dejanira is conjunct her moon, and there has NEVER been any type of abuse. Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? I do charts for the people who want them. If other aspects and planets in the chart point to marriage, then it was probably a romantic, attractive marriage where the couple did not see each other all day, did not share a bedroom, had a large household staff, lived apart, etc. His ascendant is at 24 Virgo and has 0 Virgo in his 12th house. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. DRACO CHARTS (DRACO-NATAL/ DRACO-SYNASTRY) Originally posted by kellyaroman What is a draco chart in astrology ? Black Moon Lilith/Eros in Synastry - ProBoards The same with nessus conjunct ASC? In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring . Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . Planets and asteroids will be modified when they aspect each other, this the possibilities are endless. I am worried about being the abuser here. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. That is why it feels so life and death. No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. Lovely, Lo! This ascendant descendant conjunction alone does a very interesting thing in the chart. the reason this is the case is that Mars is sexual drive( all drives actually). Eros Synastry: The Nodes and Major Angles of Your Chart (Conjunctions Squares and oppositions between Saturn and Juno can speak to a difficult relationship in the past, and theres some potential for this difficulty to be repeated unless both people are committed to working through their issues and working on the relationship. I could not agree more with this. Posts: 83From: 8th houseRegistered: Jan 2014, Posts: 50409From: Saturn next to CharmaineRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2015 Copyright [the-year] [site-link] | This website is intended for entertainment purposes only. I dont know too much about asteroids and wonder if the intense attraction I am feeling will fizzle as quickly as it came about or if it lasting. Lilith conjunct Ascendant Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. Lilith and Ceres aspects in the Synastry Chart: How do you nurture each 1. Why dont you put up your chart in my Forum and ask your question again. . Moon Conjunct Eros: Natal, Synastry, Transit | Astrology.com That is what I was saying. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. Thanks for your posts Ami. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. In other words, if a mans Nessus conjuncts your ASC, he will abuse you, in my opinion. I need to put it altogether after several hours of study to answer well. The Lilith conjunct Mars synastry aspect means that this relationship is made up of two fighters. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. PROSERPINA conjunct EROS (055') IP: Logged. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. Is this a synastry, Ariel? This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. You may be fated to marry. We have moons in conjunction in gemini; His venus and mars are in conjunction with my venus in Aquarius. Eros-Psyche: Eros and Psyche are natural mates. I have Dejanira in Pisces in the 4H. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. Chiron conj the Sun is not sexy. All of astrology is neutral. They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. They play out to have a certain pattern to the relationship. What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? For teaching purposes, one must break things down, so it may seem like it is contrary but it is really not, imo, Sandy. Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. Thank you for your words. I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. Im 30 with a mother that is 32 years older than myself and have never experienced any abuse, and Ive been alive and around my mother long enough to experience it. If the man is the Dejanira, he would be the victim. Finding Jesus is all that really matters in life. Where did you get these theories from? I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. Asteroids in Synastry Chart, Astrology online calculator - Astro-Seek.com Eros in Synastry - Astrology Anonymous I read all these comments and yes they are interesting. That is why it is so powerful. Any other aspect will show a wound through marriage, but the marriage wasnt necessarily involving both parties together. To learn more about the past life, look at the aspect, the houses in which the planets sit, and the signs. Oops, sorry Amiann. Obviously the hard ones, like by a square or an opposition, adding to the (possibly) destructive passion! You find them sexually attractive. I suppose you have choice on whether to act on it. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? I am so thankful to have such a resource like this for guidance. But I do see this possibly helping people with many bad aspects that could show any possibility of abuse in their own chart already whom have actually been through anything so that this can help them feel validated about past or current pains, but its not good to deem things as going to play out in time just because they havent yet in a long standing, healthy relationship. You truly made my day! This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. I was wondering.. Are Sun/Mars (double whammy) and Venus/Mars (double whammy) dark aspects in synastry? For more context, Nessus/BML dont aspect anything else except a grand trine with Mercury/MC and Jupiter. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Mars is the planet of passion, desire and sexual drive and Eros is the physical act of sex Re: Lilith conjunct .