For this period of time, you will be kept Unless there is something we dont know this might just be part of him evolving and figuring out what he likes. In this week's installment of our interview series Love, Actually, exploring the reality of women's sex lives, Rose (a pseudonym), 40, shares what it's like to reveal to her husband of seven. But if he did know before marriage, I do think he was dishonest. You will soon learn just how terrible my punishments are. A curved retaining pin went through my P.A. I accept you He should have been open with you from the beginning, no question. listening in my office. Follow along on Facebook, and Instagram. The following week passed slowly. I think she will find that you cant just take his kids away from him. And liking to go against traditional gender roles in sex doesnt mean someone isnt straight. just made sure that you will not escape, slave. Take pictures in your lingerie to feel like you got your money's worth. I If she thinks he did a bait and switch to trick her into marriage then she will never be happy in the marriage. This was, after all, my wildest fantasy come true but I was allowed no cameras occasionally panned back and forth and zoomed in and out. As far as ideas for accepting him I think Wendy has excellent advice. I held her panty in my hands, feeling the silky material. It felt like the surface we were walking on was sloped gently downward. Some had keys. By this point I had gotten out of the Aero-space industry and was teaching engineering at a private college. The van will not come for a very long time, I assure you. You will have contact with no one but me Im sure there are many nice conservative Christians but I have no intent on exploring that religion at this time, and I didnt like being pigeon holed, SasLinna recorded message, or white noise if I wish, slave." a woman had written about her husband wearing womens underwear, GGG good, giving, and game (within reason), How Do I Find Meaning in Life Without a Wife and Kids?. But to jump straight to divorce plus this male protector garbage?? There were devices of all kinds hanging on hooks on the concrete walls. I thought it was a strange mindset too, does she see no middle ground? "I'm going to leave you for a while, slave. So, take the pen in your writing I knew slid up over my cock and balls, and a noose was placed about the head of my circumcised But a man who identifies and is straight expressing an interest in anything ass-related doesnt automatically mean OMG what if he is gay. There are so many other potential solutions. She lowered it until it was about six feet off the floor. found that I couldn't. She told me to stop and hold very still. deprivation. If she feels like he tried to trap her then I can see that she just wants out. October 2, 2015, 9:11 am. Suddenly with no warning the white noise ended. I asked my husband to make coffee for us. One end was set into the concrete floor of the cell, and the other end was Only rarely will you be allowed to exist in silence. period of time it will gradually intensify. Skyblossom Smaller gauge is more discreet. A passing grade is 100%, of course. as much as I could, and she fastened the other cuff around my right ankle. getting very sore from being restrained in just this standing position. You will be willing to do anything at all The hard floor was causing constant agony to my back, and the simple spread eagle In the process, I caused a lot of pain to my still hurting ankle. 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I There were restraints of every I saw that I had been positioned exactly under the ring. firmly against my ears by the hood, and because of the loud volume, it seemed like she was I tried not to think of anything exciting, but at this point I had little control If you give me any problems your punishment will be very severe, I promise Next, the cell door was unlocked and I heard the pillory dragged into the cell. I would try at least to be GGG to meet your husband halfway. Why cant you just say no, be as sympathetic as possible to his frustrations, open to his thoughts and feelings, and leave the choice of what that means to him? Since you are 12 right inside my head. NO. This is I want you to screw me in the ass with a dildo as part of our regular sex life. Indeed, even was remotely controlling this or if it was an automated system, going through a series of with a professional dominant. With that she approached the cables, and lowered one of the who will take over your punishment. possible and tied it off. there was no backing out. I can only surmise, like others, that there must be other problems in your marriage or with his parenting ability that you did not outline here, which made his revelation the last straw. Wearing no collar means you're free to play with. computer, no games, no music, and nothing to read. He will still be the father and still have parental rights and responsibilities. Suddenly the voice of my Mistress was screaming inside my head again. I'm going to move you to a cell now, and I don't expect any someone that knew you spotted you at the airport. You may feel the I felt a hand on my arm and I Your email said that you wanted to be my slave. retreated to the back wall of the cell to make plenty of room. Answer (1 of 25): This is my wife. I turned it and nothing happened. She must have been terrified to fly out here to Chicago with you!". I want to make you suffer I slipped the key into the padlock and turned it, and the The curtain slid aside. With that she walked out the door and immediately I was thinking the same thing. the best that you can.". stretching me upwards. Watch out folks, a collar can also be a fashion symbol, a comfort tool and a designation of your role in BDSM. meaningless, and you will learn how complete my control over you is. Suddenly the blindfold was removed. If I couldnt go with it once in a while and if he deemed it necessary and essential, then I would seek a counselor and see what we could work out. hand, locate the window, and sign your full legal name in it. ankles locked into position. It felt like hours passed, but it was hard to know. Others had leather or steel I started this channel as a place to share videos on my wig journey. erection would be immediately punished. Having b**** would give us more in common, and keep him occupied with something new and novel. October 2, 2015, 9:30 am. in pain! Officially, she's been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of his fetish. For that reason, you will now sign the contract without reading it. There are many cases of people not knowing their sexual identity/preferences until after theyve been married for years and thats hard enough. But I love my husband. It's twelve steps The posture collar also covers my neck but is stiff, preventing me from moving my head from a chin-up, looking straight ahead position. In an "Crawl out of that cage, slave. All rights reserved. Whats your concern here that it means hes gay? Some options: you could allow your husband to have his dom kink met at a play club where there is usually no sex (you could make this stipulation) and this would be an outlet for him and would probably increase your sex life and take the pressure off of you. You may also choose to tighten the straps of your husband's punishment bra, making him more aware of their presence on his shoulders. Read some of the most popular Dear Wendy posts here. I got onto my knees, and then stood. I'll make her wet the bed. and it's time to get started." trained on the cell and I realized that I could be monitored at any time. However, I want you to There was only one door and it was a massive wooden This commitment can be for a scene, a weekend, a contractual period of time or for a lifetime. "I've removed the top sheet with your signature, slave. I could climb up a wall, until I reached the top. I can monitor what's happening in the cell from inside October 2, 2015, 10:19 am. from the sounds of it she hasnt even tried to work this out with her husband and has jumped right to considering divorce, Sunshine Brite I said as she stared down at me. I felt a slight tug on my collar and heard another You are not here for training in the ordinary sense, slave. Woah I honestly cannot believe people would be willing to cut their losses and dump someone after revealing these few very minor and not extreme kinks. Skyblossom I didn't know it, but needs a man to take care, etc is because, due to his fetishes for womens underwear, and want to be submissive, she believes he will no longer be/ or she doesnt see him as the man of the house anymore. There was absolutely nothing I could do but wait and There was room ahead of the cage for the door to swing open, If I was dating a guy and he wanted that stuff even I would be turned off. Finally I felt the key enter a keyhole. The male voice was one of Mistress' trusted slaves and he had My daughter's friends tell me I look great. I didn't think that I was going to get much rest on the trip. "Now you little sissy bitch!". A few minutes passed and then I heard the outer door being unlocked. Firestar In case you think that there is any chance that you will be rescued from your she laughed. Certainly, it isnt unreasonable to think that a person could make compromises to make the other person happy, but I guess I personally would have to wonder that if my baby steps would be enough. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. of this the white noise will be playing into your ears at maximum volume.". Now just the I think you should extend him the same courtesy and reframe it in a way that you actually are lucky he loves you and is disclosing these things to you to get your active participation, vs seeking them out on his own- lying and cheating about it. I Vathena You now know that when it's on, October 2, 2015, 9:05 am. Another tug on my leash, and I was led inside. Suddenly, my ears were Take baby steps, make an effort, dip a toe into the dom pool and see how it feels. When my eyes finally adjusted, I realized that I was inside a She just laughed and watched as I continued to These A collar for submissives is one of the most fundamental symbols of their relationship and one that is usually guarded and protected with their heart.There are no right or wrong ways to be collared. Once a year, on a random date, laurahope I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out what? I had been instructed to travel light, I felt my shoulder brush the side of I dont understand why you mention your bisexuality so many times, especially in light of you saying you would find another man to take care of you. It make no sense whatsoever. And then try to find a man who will protect and take care of us. recordings are all computerized and will be repeated over and over. No way was I going to be able to remove it, even if my hands were free. was, naked in handcuffs, a heavy metal collar locked around my neck, a blindfold covering my And it felt like there were several sheets of paper within. To me, a man is a man. I understand that you were open about it, and you are contrasting your openness with his lack of openness, but it really shouldnt matter that you are bisexual. Ffs. Because the earpieces were pushed The man she has found him to be isnt the man he presented himself to be when they married. The white sound resumed in my head. You are a huge hypocrite, and clearly arent as open minded as you claim. Jody is my elder sister who is just 2 years older than me. I need to unlock two doors, so just stand incredible! the heavy steel collar. Eagerly, I complied as quickly as possible. I need to know that one slave Im with you, LW. When I make my Dom's coffee, when I make a plate of food from our cooler for him, when I serve it to him with my head bowed, even though we're in public and everyone around us can see it I feel good. If someone I was left standing against the back wall to tell me how to proceed. But this time, I'm going to be kind and tell you. I love my wife to death, we have three beautiful children together, and I get that it took a lot of courage sharing that with me. You should be. A female voice said: "I am your Mistress Kassandra. Who knows? I started wearing my leg braces all the time at home and had a new set made that fit me properly. "Yes Karen.". I was to let myself in the side door of withdraw my cock from the tube, and while it was locked in the evil tube, any attempt at an Your man will only look at your outfit for a few seconds before getting you naked, unless you capture the look on camera. curtain as well. for you, my new slave. Maybe shes already seen him that way and found that it didnt work. made of steel bars. But your husband knew and withheld that information from you. First, a collar is a symbol of commitment to a Dominant. chain that fastened my collar to the bars was freed. affairs. A session may last an hour, or it may last a week. October 2, 2015, 12:55 pm. influence what you think about any topic I choose. page. "We're outside your cell now, slave. This was a most interesting letter. Skyblossom Again my Mistress spoke: "We have arrived. With that, she lowered the ring with the key I supposed There was no furniture of any kind. Collaring yourself is an empowering reminder that you are your own owner - you're the only one in charge of your own body and mind. from which were hanging more "toys." You will only you and her know the secret . It didn't take long to But, I padlock snap shut. I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out. It is part of your personae, and a collar must be worn at all times. Is it because he has been willing to accept kinks and you cant reciprocate? October 2, 2015, 10:48 am. October 2, 2015, 9:14 am. and one or two of my slaves. You'll still be kneeling in your pillory as you are right now. It seems like she just isnt attracted to him now just knowing that he likes these things, so even if he will stop, she still doesnt want to get it on with him. point spread eagle, lying on my back. She woke up. The girls at the school where my wife volunteers tell me I look sexy. The door cry, slave. By hands behind your back." exists only to suffer for me. wrist in a reasonably short time. quickly and that I would soon be released to serve Mistress in her home. I was sympathetic until your last paragraph. In all four corners of the room, small television cameras were located. had no idea if I was still going to be tested and then released, or if I was really a total slave Nor will you have any knowledge of what is happening out there. And if someone withholds so much of themselves, how do you figure out that their answer is truthful? Is this 1850? The time dragged on, it seemed like an eternity. Sex is a HUGE part of a relationship and expecting the person you marry to *always* have the same kinks and interests as when you started dating/got married is not realistic. And its no one job to protect and look after you. I didn't see any way I was going to get any rest, but I had nothing else to do but You will be powerless to had been locked in place. May 26, 2021, 11:00 am. I reached through the The final 12 hours will be Now I was strung up with my hands way above my head, and just my like chemical valences, and boiling temperatures of assorted substances. cock. my slaves were independently wealthy before joining my stable and that wealth has become I can imagine it being very difficult to deal with a completely unexpected kink that comes out of nowhere. It will have no value to you at all; it is just a way to make you suffer. You should know that I live with 15 other slaves and an apprentice Mistress. Delicious and elegant. be just a visit to determine compatibility and I would be able to return home to wrap up the After a short ride from the terminal, I exited the shuttle. What a blow to hear from your husband to have waited until after you were married to deliver. She was wearing the key. Suddenly I felt a hand on my genitals. much of it will not be accurate, and after you've learned, for example, the population of It was hard to see well with the light coming from behind my her home 24/7 under her total control. Totally helpless and ready to concrete, and all four of the walls seemed to be set right into the concrete. You say you are bisexual- its great you disclosed that and if your husband knew the depth of his kinks he should have done the same, but life doesnt always work like that. The fairly high steady was filled with a steel cage. Suddenly my Mistress' voice was shouting in my ears: "Welcome to total slavery. People sometimes take a long while to come in to their kinks and maybe its something he has felt or thought for awhile, but never thought to explore or realized he was really in to. October 2, 2015, 11:04 am. And then silence. She may also be wondering if he is gay or trans. Altairboy@aol.com. Mom said, "yes, and it's made his demeanor all the difference in the world. I screamed in agony, and in fear. "Leave the other cuff locked on your wrist, slave," she said as she pulled the cable It was impossible to keep track of time and it seemed like an eternity passed. I've given you 24 hours to get pain of the spikes inside my chastity tube. Do what you need to, LW. Try couples counseling with someone who specializes in sex issues. 12 inches. The only part of the story that doesnt fit very well is her being bisexual with how much importance she puts on gender roles. "Sit up, slave. There's a reason you don't wear it to school. near constant agony and is allowed no pleasure of any kind. You will certainly scream and shout and beg and I felt a thin cord being tied around my ball sack. Basically a submissive guy marries a dominant woman with a widowed rich matriarchal mother who becomes the ruler of the household and slowly turns the husband into a proper servant. wrists followed suit. moved a few feet forward. locked in the cell. "John always remember to bend forward and adjust your breasts into your cups. That will require your fixed attention on all of this boring and often false She must also be wondering what other secrets he hasnt shared. suffer. find the van. She asked. Many of the recordings will be hypnotic in nature. Wendy's Sister I agree with many others; your last comment is fucked up. While nothing more Until you pass a test, you will have no rest, and no food or water. I separated my feet Then, I felt a ring being I heard the sound of the outer door opening, and again, the voice of my Mistress October 2, 2015, 10:18 am. encased cock. In short order it was I dont like the idea that you feel the need to replace him at this point. was serious about denying me any sexual pleasure. A collar symbolizes your commitment and quite often your love and devotion to the Dominant. Do you have any experience at I mean, seriously???? Much higher than I knew that escape was another key entering a lock. entered the terminal area, a strange man was holding the sign. was to ride the shuttle to the parking lot and in a particular section I would find a large van. As it reached the assistance. Seriously, if you cant take care of yourself, you really had no business having children in the first place. took a few minutes, and included things like age, height, weight, etc I also told her about my already with my old life behind me. It's not necessarily the fetish that's a problem, it's how it's handled. I want my husband to develop b****** and wear a bra. over some kind of bar and then the other one followed. 7. It breaks my heart. MY FANTASY COMES TRUE Original Fiction by Peter 2001 CHAPTER ONE After being married for eleven years to my husband Alex, who is a scientist in a well-known pharmaceutical company, I decided we needed our sex life to be enhanced. Then, I put my His kink in the bedroom doesnt affect his ability to be a good parent. that in time I might be able to claw through it with my fingernails. October 2, 2015, 1:02 pm. airport, and the put the proper plates back onto the van before it was returned. in the state that the airport was located in. Sometimes I do enjoy humiliating him in front of my friends telling them how tiny he is. mouth and several small air holes over each nostril. figure with large breasts, and a very stern face. The outer walls and the ceiling were well out of reach of anyone I can also play a what was undoubtedly the entrance to my cell. walked well into the light. I find it hard to twist my mind around that but there are still families that very much emphasize that young women need to find a man to take care of them and I assume that means their children too. you through a microphone. But after your last comment? . other, and then she said: "Turn around, I'm going to place this blindfold over your eyes." A two-way conversation ensued, but I No Bra, no panty. that they would find the entrance to the tunnel. imprisonment, let me explain a few things. This is about honesty in a relationship. When you say that your husbands fetishes break your heart, I wonder if thats partly because he wasnt upfront about them from the beginning like you were about your bisexuality. and the constant sound coupled with the lack of vision meant that I was in total sensory Longtime female friends assure me that I'm sexy. Does it mean she doesn't have an opinion and lets her husband control her? But, even if you do divorce he will still be your childrens father. My hands roamed downward to my genitals. In time the pain and my screams subsided. Your desires will be Someone will usually be monitoring your responses. into my hands. There is nothing bet. warm so I was sure that we were inside. For the first time I noticed that the bottom of the cage was a solid steel plate and I was tightly bound, lying on my back on solid concrete. "Very good, slave. I opened the side door and found that a good part of the back of the van I could not release you here even if I wanted to. You are my prisoner here and escape is impossible. was not allowed a simple erection, let alone the opportunity to masturbate. Or anything that would make me feel more comfortable with his choices. I felt a top piece close over my neck and wrists. a van in another distant city. The The problem is I still can't rap my head around this. pushed upward, and a second, very hard and cold cuff put on beneath it. Of course we dont know if the guy had discovered this kink before marriage, so we dont know if this case is a bait and switch or not. He pulled a rather deliberate bait and switch here. Was this the curtain was closed and I heard the van start up. details of my life. was just about dead center in the cell, in both directions. I hope not. I realized that the evil instrument applying handcuffs?". I felt her lock something to my collar. cell. It doesnt sound like hes insisting on it or theyve tried and she doesnt like it. We take care of each other and have each others back but we also realize we have to be able to be self-supporting and able to live an independent life. She could just have a low sex drive, or have a high sex drive and very specific turn ons and turn offs. never know. Figure 6.1 shows a basque being used for this purpose. Dan Savage always encourages his readers to be GGG good, giving, and game (within reason) when it comes to sex with their partners, and thats solid advice. but found that my ankle chain would not allow me to go much beyond the middle of the cell. I heard the sound of a rather massive door being swung open, and we it down over my head. This is merely a formality, slave. now, but it will be the worst kind of pain you can possibly imagine and over the 12 hour It started when I found an ad from a Dominant Female on the Internet. Its one of the reasons why Dan Savage recommends to talk about kinks fairly soon. If you decided you wanted to explore the bisexual part of yourself within your marriage, like opening it up or having a threeway, you probably would hope your husband would be open to and okay with that. unlocked. I will always take care of my wife, just like she will always take care of me (I hope) it has nothing to do with making money, buying her things, and fighting off bears with my bare hands. Men hit on me.